Dreaming of getting married in Ireland? The cliffs, the castles, the countryside – it’s got “unreal wedding vibes” written all over it. But if you’re a U.S. citizen, you’re probably wondering how do we actually make this happen?
In this blog, we’ll break down everything you need to know – from paperwork and deadlines to legal steps and tips for LGBTQ+ couples – so you can plan a wedding in Ireland that’s easy, magical, and completely unforgettable.
Where (and How) to Get Married in Ireland
First, you’ve got a choice to make… are you heading to Northern Ireland (part of the UK) or the Republic of Ireland?
Both are stunning, but the rules are slightly different. Here’s what you need to know:
Getting Married in Northern Ireland (UK)
Notice period: Submit a Marriage Notice Form at least 28 days before your ceremony. Play it safe – give yourself 8 weeks.
Paperwork:
- Passports and birth certificates
- Divorce or death certificates (if you’ve been married before)
- Proof of address
Witnesses: Two people over 18 need to be there on the day.
Ceremony types: Civil, religious, and humanist ceremonies are all legal marriages.
Outdoor weddings: Totally allowed, but you’ll need landowner permission if it’s not a licensed venue.
Getting Married in the Republic of Ireland
Notice period: You’ll need to give 3 months’ notice in person to a registrar. Yes, you read that right – you’ll need to make a quick trip to Ireland for this bit.
Paperwork:
- Passports and birth certificates
- Marriage Registration Form (MRF)
- Divorce or death certificates (if applicable)
Witnesses: Two people over 18, same as Northern Ireland.
Ceremony types: Civil, religious, and humanist ceremonies are all legal, but some religious denominations may have extra requirements – just check ahead.
Outdoor weddings: Allowed, as long as the location is open to the public and you have permission.
Can LGBTQ+ Couples Get Married in Ireland?
Yes, 100%. Ireland is one of the most welcoming places to get married as an LGBTQ+ couple. Same-sex marriage is legal in both Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland, so if you’re planning a civil, humanist, or outdoor ceremony, you’re all set.
If you’re opting for a religious ceremony, just check with the denomination in advance to confirm any requirements. Otherwise? It’s smooth sailing and all about celebrating your love, your way.
The Step-by-Step Process to Get Married in Ireland
Here’s your step-by-step guide to pulling this off without breaking a sweat:
Step 1: Decide on Your Ceremony Type
- Civil Ceremony: Non-religious, legal, and conducted by a registrar at an approved venue (think registry offices, hotels, or licensed outdoor spaces).
- Religious Ceremony: Conducted by a recognised officiant—perfect for a traditional church wedding. Some denominations may have extra steps, so check first.
- Humanist Ceremony: Personalised, non-religious, and perfect if you want something meaningful and legal.
- Symbolic Ceremony: Skip the paperwork and make it all about the vibe. Do the legal bit in the U.S. and celebrate in Ireland without a care in the world.
Step 2: Give Your Notice of Intent to Marry
- Northern Ireland: Submit your Marriage Notice Form (one each) to the local registrar at least 28 days before the wedding. Pay a small fee and include your documents. This is something we can support you with as part of our elopement packages
- Republic of Ireland: Book an appointment to give 3 months’ notice in person to a registrar who will then give you your Marriage Registration Form.
Step 3: Gather Your Paperwork
Sort your documents early to avoid last-minute panic:
- Passports
- Birth certificates
- Proof of address
- Divorce or death certificates (if applicable)
Always have copies handy. Wedding planning is chaotic enough – don’t lose your originals in a sea of emails and luggage.
Step 4: Lock in Your Officiant and Witnesses
Book your officiant – registrar, religious celebrant, or humanist celebrant – depending on your ceremony type. Don’t forget your two witnesses (over 18) to make it official. Once again, when you choose to elope with us, we can arrange all of these extras for you for added peace of mind
Step 5: Pick Your Location and Secure Permissions
Dreaming of an outdoor ceremony? Whether it’s a rugged cliff, a quiet beach, or a castle courtyard, you’ll need landowner permission (both North and Republic).
Not into the outdoors? There are plenty of – hotels, historical estates, and charming manor houses that’ll take your breath away.
And if you need some ideas and inspiration, have a read of our blog: The Ultimate Guide to Eloping in Ireland: Top Locations & Essential Tips.
Step 6: Make It Official
On the big day, bring your Marriage Registration Form (or equivalent paperwork), your two witnesses, and let your officiant do their thing.
Once it’s done, your officiant will file the paperwork, and – boom – you’re legally married.
Step 7: Take Your Marriage Certificate Home
Keep your marriage certificate safe for recognition in the U.S.
What to Do After You Get Married in Ireland
First things first: have a whiskey or a pint of Guinness, soak up the moment, and enjoy the fact that you just pulled off the wedding of your dreams.
Maybe you’re heading off on a honeymoon road trip around this stunning island – cliffs, castles, and cosy pubs await.
Oh, but let’s not forget the boring but important stuff…
Make sure your officiant has filed the paperwork. Whether you married in Northern Ireland or the Republic, they’ll register the marriage for you – but give it a quick double-check before you head home.
Next, keep your marriage certificate safe. You’ll need this little gem back in the U.S. for name changes, taxes, insurance updates, or just to smugly prove that yes, you got married in Ireland.
Once that’s sorted? You’re free to enjoy your first days as newlyweds.
Ready to Get Married in Ireland? Let’s Make It Happen
Whether you’re planning an intimate elopement on a misty cliff, a celebration in a centuries-old castle, or a cosy ceremony surrounded by rolling green hills, Ireland has everything you need to make your wedding unforgettable.
Now that you know the steps, the paperwork, and the insider tips, there’s only one thing left to do… start planning!
So, grab your partner, book your flights, and let’s get you hitched in the most beautiful place on earth. You bring the love – we’ll help you make the magic happen.
Ready to start planning your Irish wedding? Take a look at our elopement packages, and let’s turn your dream day into reality.
